Planning Your Fresh Start After Divorce
Divorce isn’t just about the end of a relationship; it also represents a new start for you. Leaving an unhealthy relationship opens up new possibilities. Here are some ways to make the most of this time: 1. Adjust your attitude toward yourself While WebMD admits that this “may sound cheesy and New Age-y” learning “to like yourself” and not holding onto a negative...
Your First Christmas After Divorce May Be Your Best
Are you facing your first post-divorce Christmas? While it may seem like your split has taken the joy out of the holidays, this doesn’t have to be the case. You may find that this new arrangement highlights what’s most important about Christmas. Why This Might Be Your Best Christmas 1. A more relaxed holiday season Now that you don’t have to split your time between your...
What Fathers Need to Know About Child Support
Are you a father who has just been ordered to pay child support? You’re in an unfamiliar and confusing situation. It can also be a frustrating state of affairs if you believe you are paying more than you should, or if your ex-spouse isn’t spending the money according to the agreement. Read on to learn what you need to know about being a father who pays child support. The...
Know These Trial Seperation Stats Before You Try One
Are you considering a trial separation because you believe that you and your spouse need some time apart? Do you think it might make your marriage stronger in the end? Read on to learn more about the research regarding trial separations and their effectiveness. The Cold, Hard Numbers Researchers focusing on relationships have studied how well trial separations work. The results, as it turns...
4 Things to Avoid Saying When Telling Your Kids About Divorce
It’s no surprise that talking to kids about divorce is hard. You have to manage your own emotions, anticipate theirs, and try to reassure them that you’ll both still be there for them (or, in some cases, face the reality that one of you may not be willing to take on full responsibility). To help guide your discussions, here are 4 things to avoid saying to your children when...
How to Divide Time with Your Kids BEFORE the Custody Agreement
If you’re a parent going through a divorce, you’re already aware of how your kids can be a source of contention. The situation can be even worse if you haven’t signed a custody agreement yet. However, this doesn’t have to lead to arguments. Read on to learn how to divide time with your children before you sign the custody agreement. Putting Your Children’s Needs...
Worried About Losing a Family Pet in Your Divorce?
If you’re going through a divorce and are worried about never being able to see your beloved pet again, you’re not alone. For many people, pets are like children to them. The thought of losing “custody” of Fido or Fluffy keeps them awake at night. Read on to learn how Ontario courts determine who gets to keep pets after a divorce. How Does the Law View Pets? Firstly,...
“White Lies” That May Lead to Divorce
How many times in your marriage have you told a white lie? These harmless untruths don’t have any consequences, or so we think. We engage in white lies to protect our spouses’ feelings. However, white lies are actually quite destructive – if the other partner finds out about the deceit, the marriage could be over. Read on to learn which white lies may lead to divorce. Cash...
How to Protect Your Savings During Divorce
Are you about to go through a divorce and are worried you’re going to lose your life savings? It’s a common fear. Who hasn’t heard stories about how their friend lost everything to his ex-wife during their divorce? No one wants to go through that. But, who wants to be stuck in a loveless marriage? You can go through a divorce without losing your life savings – read on...