Are Common Law Relationships Pushing the Divorce Rate Down?
It’s likely that they are. To understand how, let’s look at some of the facts around common-law relationships. How common is common law? According to the CBC, as of the 2011 census, 11% of Canadian women were living with a common-law partner. And people of all ages are changing the way they approach relationships. Historica reports that “Today, first unions are more likely...
A Bad Marriage is More Stressful Than a Bad Job
While both these issues are serious and can impact both your psychological and physical health, the distress caused by a bad marriage is ultimately worse. A job is important in terms of our social status and finances; marriage affects these areas and our overall sense of emotional security. Emotional and Physical Harm A bad job can create stress in other areas of your life, but a bad marriage...
Small Arguments That Can Cost Divorcees Big Money
Do you know what’s likely to cost you BIG in a divorce? While big assets like your home or cottage are obvious focus points for discussion, and lawyer’s fees and child support could be big costs, the small stuff can add up—especially when the situation becomes emotional. Here are a few seemingly small arguments that could end up costing you a lot in the long run. Spite could cost...
Planning Your Fresh Start After Divorce
Divorce isn’t just about the end of a relationship; it also represents a new start for you. Leaving an unhealthy relationship opens up new possibilities. Here are some ways to make the most of this time: 1. Adjust your attitude toward yourself While WebMD admits that this “may sound cheesy and New Age-y” learning “to like yourself” and not holding onto a negative...
Your First Christmas After Divorce May Be Your Best
Are you facing your first post-divorce Christmas? While it may seem like your split has taken the joy out of the holidays, this doesn’t have to be the case. You may find that this new arrangement highlights what’s most important about Christmas. Why This Might Be Your Best Christmas 1. A more relaxed holiday season Now that you don’t have to split your time between your...
What Fathers Need to Know About Child Support
Are you a father who has just been ordered to pay child support? You’re in an unfamiliar and confusing situation. It can also be a frustrating state of affairs if you believe you are paying more than you should, or if your ex-spouse isn’t spending the money according to the agreement. Read on to learn what you need to know about being a father who pays child support. The...
Know These Trial Seperation Stats Before You Try One
Are you considering a trial separation because you believe that you and your spouse need some time apart? Do you think it might make your marriage stronger in the end? Read on to learn more about the research regarding trial separations and their effectiveness. The Cold, Hard Numbers Researchers focusing on relationships have studied how well trial separations work. The results, as it turns...
4 Things to Avoid Saying When Telling Your Kids About Divorce
It’s no surprise that talking to kids about divorce is hard. You have to manage your own emotions, anticipate theirs, and try to reassure them that you’ll both still be there for them (or, in some cases, face the reality that one of you may not be willing to take on full responsibility). To help guide your discussions, here are 4 things to avoid saying to your children when...
How to Divide Time with Your Kids BEFORE the Custody Agreement
If you’re a parent going through a divorce, you’re already aware of how your kids can be a source of contention. The situation can be even worse if you haven’t signed a custody agreement yet. However, this doesn’t have to lead to arguments. Read on to learn how to divide time with your children before you sign the custody agreement. Putting Your Children’s Needs...